4 Steps To Turn An Attractive Woman Into Your Girlfriend.

You’ve met a beautiful woman and, you’ve hit it well with her.

She is interested in you and you are interested in her as well.

The attractive woman has all the qualities you would ever need in a girlfriend or wife.

Everything seems to be moving in a positive direction at the start.

After some time, the woman seems to be losing interest.

She is taking long to reply to your texts and whenever you call her, she seems not to be excited talking to you like she used to.

You kept asking yourself what made her lose interest. Everything seemed to be moving on well.

“What did do wrong? is she playing games with me?”, you asked yourself.

Has this ever happened to you?

Never think that by pouring out all your emotions on the girl, she will like you more.

It will just make you look unattractive in the woman’s eyes. This is where so many guys lose with beautiful women!

They become much more interested and invested in the woman than she is in them.

It is ok to feel like the woman you are dating is exciting, attractive and lovely.

The problem comes when you start over-investing in her, making her think that she so special, becoming needy and insecure.

As I said, you should learn to control your emotions.

The moment you start letting all your emotions out, it will mark the beginning of the woman’s loss of attraction to you.

A woman became attracted to you because of your attractive traits like confidence, strength and emotional stability.

She didn’t decide to be with you just because you thought she was very special or simply because you were so interested in her.

And chances are, she left other guys who were so attracted to her and who thought she was exceedingly special.

The problem with becoming too interested in a woman than she is in you is that you often become needy, insecure and always needing a woman’s validation.

All these traits make any man look less attractive to any woman.

And she will often leave you the moment you start displaying all those unattractive behaviours.

You never want to show a woman that you are so interested in her, otherwise, she may pull away.

You have to always lead your interactions with women but not chasing.

Leading a woman is attractive but chasing a woman is unattractive.

So how can you tell whether you are chasing or leading a woman?

I’m going to illustrate this using examples.

Asking a woman out for a date is leading but continuing to ask a woman out again and again, after declining your first request, is chasing.

When you are leaning in and a woman is leaning away, you are chasing.

Asking a woman open-ended questions on a date is leading but bragging, talking too much and trying to impress her is chasing.

Asking a woman back to your place is leading but begging and pleading to have sex with her is chasing.

Buying your girlfriend an expensive dinner is leading but buying an expensive dinner on your first date is chasing.

Talking to a woman who shows interest in you is leading but trying to come up with the perfect word to say to a woman is chasing.

Bragging is chasing.

Wanting to spend all the time with a woman when she isn’t interested in chasing.

Asking a girl, verbally, to become your girlfriend is chasing but being exciting, fun, confident, assertive and focusing on achieving your goals until the woman starts introducing you to her parents or close friends (aka wants you to be her official boyfriend), is leading.

When you start chasing a woman, she will often lose attraction for you.

When you practice the above four steps in their order, you will have more success with attractive women.

Other forms of chasing a woman

• Texting the woman all-day.

• Always looking for proof that the girl loves you.

• Craving to hang out with the girl all the time: Even when she doesn’t feel like it, a worst-case scenario!

• Contacting the woman all-day, and every day. She needs space to miss you.

• Showing feelings of jealousy whenever she converses or hangs out with her guy colleagues.

Some of you might be thinking that it’s “love”…

News flash bro, that’s NEEDINESS!

Any gorgeous girl with plenty of options will feel turned off 98% of the time.

Note: This post may contain affiliate links. That means I may earn a small commission at no additional cost to you if you click and make a purchase. I only recommend products I know and trust.

To Recap.

You will stop driving away women who are interested in you because you developed so much interest in the woman and you ended up chasing her.

It will prevent you from entering the dreaded friend zone.

In summary,

If you want to take your interactions with women to another level, and easily turn the attractive woman into your girlfriend;

#1. Lead your interactions with a woman.

#2. Let the woman chase you.

#3. Reward the woman when she chases you.

#4. Do not chase her.

I hope this article has helped you learn how to effectively get an attractive woman who is interested in you to become your girlfriend without trying hard and pushing her away.

Don’t hesitate to share this article with friends if you have dug it.

And don’t forget to check out eharmony to meet awesome women of any age who are interested in serious relationships. eharmony has a matching system to ensure you are matched with women who have the exact kind of personality, and age bracket you want.
If you want to get a girlfriend, you should join eharmony now for FREE!

That’s it, friend.

 

Never think that by pouring out all your emotions on the girl, she will like you more.

It will just make you look unattractive in the woman’s eyes. This is where so many guys lose with beautiful women!

They become much more interested and invested in the woman than she is in them.

It is ok to feel like the woman you are dating is exciting, attractive and lovely.

The problem comes when you start over-investing in her, making her think that she so special, becoming needy and insecure.

As I said, you should learn to control your emotions.

The moment you start letting all your emotions out, it will mark the beginning of the woman’s loss of attraction to you.

A woman became attracted to you because of your attractive traits like confidence, strength and emotional stability.

She didn’t decide to be with you just because you thought she was very special or simply because you were so interested in her.

And chances are, she left other guys who were so attracted to her and who thought she was exceedingly special.

The problem with becoming too interested in a woman than she is in you is that you often become needy, insecure and always needing a woman’s validation.

All these traits make any man look less attractive to any woman.

And she will often leave you the moment you start displaying all those unattractive behaviours.

You never want to show a woman that you are so interested in her, otherwise, she may pull away.

You have to always lead your interactions with women but not chasing.

Leading a woman is attractive but chasing a woman is unattractive.

So how can you tell whether you are chasing or leading a woman?

I’m going to illustrate this using examples.

Asking a woman out for a date is leading but continuing to ask a woman out again and again, after declining your first request, is chasing.

When you are leaning in and a woman is leaning away, you are chasing.

Asking a woman open-ended questions on a date is leading but bragging, talking too much and trying to impress her is chasing.

Asking a woman back to your place is leading but begging and pleading to have sex with her is chasing.

Buying your girlfriend an expensive dinner is leading but buying an expensive dinner on your first date is chasing.

Talking to a woman who shows interest in you is leading but trying to come up with the perfect word to say to a woman is chasing.

Bragging is chasing.

Wanting to spend all the time with a woman when she isn’t interested in chasing.

Asking a girl, verbally, to become your girlfriend is chasing but being exciting, fun, confident, assertive and focusing on achieving your goals until the woman starts introducing you to her parents or close friends (aka wants you to be her official boyfriend), is leading.

When you start chasing a woman, she will often lose attraction for you.

When you practice the above four steps in their order, you will have more success with attractive women.

Other forms of chasing a woman

• Texting the woman all-day.

• Always looking for proof that the girl loves you.

• Craving to hang out with the girl all the time: Even when she doesn’t feel like it, a worst-case scenario!

• Contacting the woman all-day, and every day. She needs space to miss you.

• Showing feelings of jealousy whenever she converses or hangs out with her guy colleagues.

Some of you might be thinking that it’s “love”…

News flash bro, that’s NEEDINESS!

Any gorgeous girl with plenty of options will feel turned off 98% of the time.

Note: This post may contain affiliate links. That means I may earn a small commission at no additional cost to you if you click and make a purchase. I only recommend products I know and trust.

To Recap.

You will stop driving away women who are interested in you because you developed so much interest in the woman and you ended up chasing her.

It will prevent you from entering the dreaded friend zone.

In summary,

If you want to take your interactions with women to another level, and easily turn the attractive woman into your girlfriend;

#1. Lead your interactions with a woman.

#2. Let the woman chase you.

#3. Reward the woman when she chases you.

#4. Do not chase her.

I hope this article has helped you learn how to effectively get an attractive woman who is interested in you to become your girlfriend without trying hard and pushing her away.

Don’t hesitate to share this article with friends if you have dug it.

And don’t forget to check out eharmony to meet awesome women of any age who are interested in serious relationships. eharmony has a matching system to ensure you are matched with women who have the exact kind of personality, and age bracket you want.
If you want to get a girlfriend, you should join eharmony now for FREE!

That’s it, friend.

 

Man with beauitiful girlfriend.

These are the four ways you can lead your relations with an attractive woman and turn her into your girlfriend.

Lead the interaction

Let and encourage her to chase you.

When she chases you, reward her

Do not chase her

Then repeat the four processes.

When implementing these four specific ways, you lead your interactions with the attractive woman as you encourage her to chase you.

When she begins to chase you, reward her for chasing you because this is where most men screw up.

They screw up by not rewarding the woman for chasing them.

When a woman starts to chase you and you show disinterest by acting cold, she will immediately give up and lose interest.

Other men make a mistake of becoming too interested in the woman too early and, then end chasing the woman.

When you start chasing a woman, you look unattractive. This will cause the woman to dump you.

If a woman starts to chase you, make sure you reward her to keep chasing, at the same time, not chasing her.

Step #1. Lead your interactions with a woman.

As a man, you must always lead your interactions with women. You have to always make the first move.

It is your role to initiate interactions that lead to sex.

A woman will show that she is interested in you but, she will never lead and make the first move.

No matter how outgoing and assertive she may be.

Even if the woman is a president or the CEO of a very big company, she will not take the responsibility for sex.

Some men are guilty of wanting to let women lead to sexual interactions.

This is especially true for shy and nice guys.

Letting a woman lead an interaction will turn her off.

It will turn the woman off because women are attracted to men who possess leadership traits like being decisive and having a plan.

Never believe in some things you see in movies when it comes to dating.

They rarely happen in real life.

For example, in a movie, you watch a shy guy who is interested in a girl but scared to make a move.

The girl goes on and makes the first move on the guy by going for the kiss or initiating sex.

Am not saying that being shy is a very bad thing nor should you beat yourself up for being shy.

I’m a naturally shy and an introverted guy as well.

However, you can be shy and, at the same time, be confident, bold and go after you want without seeking anyone’s approval.

Again don’t be a nice guy (hahaha).

Neither should you become the opposite- a jerk.

You have to become an alpha male, a high-value guy. And this is what you will exactly learn if you keep reading my content.

You will learn how to become an alpha male who can effortlessly attract and keep high-quality women.

You need to become an alpha male, not a jerk.

Even though jerks are more attractive, on a primal level, to women than nice guys jerks only keep girls who are messed up and, have low self-esteem.

If you wait for a woman to lead or take initiative, you may have to wait for a very long time.

If a woman shows interest in you and does not make a move, she will just assume that you are simply not interested in her.

As I said, women don’t like to take responsibility for sex. If you let her take the lead, she will be turned off.

Another reason women don’t make a move on guys they find attractive is that they fear rejection. Women fear rejection more than men do.

She can’t ask you out because she will be risking rejection.

She avoids feelings of disappointment and failure like any other person.

As a man, you should always expect yourself to lead your interactions with women who show interest in you.

Women, especially those who are a bit more assertive, also avoid initiating interactions that lead to sex because they want to avoid being labelled as sluts.

They fear being judged by society. Any average girl will do whatever it takes not to be labelled a slut.

Women love sex just like, if not more than, men.

If you want to easily have sex with a woman, never judge her sexual behaviours.

This is one of the top reasons why nice guys always finish last when it comes to dating attractive women.

They judge sexually assertive women. They judge women who go after their sexual desires.

They never realise that women do love sex, a lot.

Nice guys make a mistake of treating attractive women like innocent princesses that do not like sex.

Beautiful women do not delay having sex with an alpha male because he treats her like a normal human who loves sex as he does.

And the woman acts accordingly.

How do you lead your interactions with women?

If a woman indicates signals of interest, let’s say, she is seated by herself keeps eye contact with you and then smiles, you have to walk up to her start a short conversation, ask her out right there and then or you take her contact if she has no time.

After taking her number, you will have to plan a date and then ask her out to join you for a specific activity, at a specific time, place and day.

Another example, it can be a girl in your social circle who shows signals of interest like touching you very often, laughing at your normal statements as if they are the funniest in the world, paying the most attention when you are talking to a group of friends.

If you are interested in the woman, then you will have to make a move by, for example, asking her to hang out.

If you delay making a move, her interest in you will fall. You need to hit the iron while it’s still hot.

As I said, women do not want to take responsibility for sex.

Even if she is interested in you, she is most likely not to make any move on you.

When you do not make a move on her, she will likely be typing in google or bing and even asking her friends something like “how can I make my crush to ask me out?”.

And chances are, her ‘crush’ will also be interested in her.

If you are interested in a woman who is also interested in you but, you delay making a move you may end up into the friend zone.

Later on, after gathering the guts to make a move, it will become so hard for you to move out of the friendzone.

So when you are interested in making a girl become your girlfriend, then you need to take initiative and lead her.

As I said, even if she is so interested in you she will never take the initiative.

The best thing she can do is to show you signals of interest.

Step #2. Let the woman chase you.

A woman who is chasing will never leave you because she can’t chase you and, at the same time, leave you.

This seems to contradict because it is hard for the majority of men to distinguish pursuing a woman from chasing.

Pursuing a woman simply involves actions that lead your interactions with women towards the bedroom or a relationship.

Chasing involves behaviours where you are over pursuing a woman, seeking for her validation and approval.

The thing is, the woman started to chase you the moment she started showing signs of interest in you.

She was chasing by wanting you to make a move on her.

Women love chasing men and they are turned off by men who are constantly chasing after them.

And this is something that most women wouldn’t verbally agree with.

When it comes to attracting women, you have to alwalook output for a woman’s behaviour not what she says she wants.

When a woman starts to chase you, it will raise your value in her eyes.

She will respect you and love you a lot when she knows that she had to put in some work to get your affections.

Here are some examples of how you can encourage a woman to chase you;

Leaving conversations on a high note.

Not leaning in when standing or sitting beside her. You should let her be the one to lean into you.

Not always being the first one to contact her by text or phone call.

After your first or second date, you have to let the woman reach out to you first.

Giving the woman space to miss you.

When talking to a woman you have just met, you have to point only part of your body towards her and let her do the opposite.

So how do you get an attractive woman to become your girlfriend?

You should encourage the woman to chase you. When she chases you, she will subconsciously feel like you are an attractive guy.

When a woman is chasing you, she can easily commit to you and become your girlfriend.

Step #3. When she chases you, reward her.

A man kissing a woman

When some guys learn that a woman becomes more attracted to you when you push her away, they make a mistake of overdoing it.

They keep on pushing the woman away.

This doesn’t work because any woman with healthy self-esteem will give up and walk away.

When a woman starts to chase you, reward her by giving her more of your attention.

This is a concept known as the push-pull.

You push her away by letting her chase you and pull her when you give her more attention.

Examples of rewarding her for chasing you;

When you approach a girl and she is answering your questions in detail or laughing at your jokes you can now give her more of your attention by starting to lean into her sometimes.

When she initiates conversations over text or by calling you first after your first date, you can set up a second date (leading) or invite her back to your place.

When she does something for you (chasing you), let her do it and show her that you genuinely appreciate her efforts (reward).

Many guys are guilty of belittling good things women do for them.

Never say things like “Noo, you did not need to buy that”.

This shows that you are unworthy of the very good things a woman is doing for you.

This will discourage a woman from doing good things for you and chasing you.

Remember, you want a woman to be always doing good things for you.

That is when she will value you more and become more attracted to you.

Unfortunately, many guys think that the reverse is true.

Many guys think that a woman will love them more if they are the ones doing more good things for the woman.

The more good things a woman does for you, the more she likes you.

The more you invest in a woman, the more you value her not the way round.

When she compliments you (chasing you), accept the compliment (reward). Never ignore a woman’s compliment.

When you reward a woman for chasing you by giving her more of your attention, she will feel like she has earned your affections.

This will make her value you more. She will easily commit to you as your girlfriend because she will feel a sense of accomplishment.

Step #4. Do not chase her.

You should never get too interested in a woman if you do not want her to pull away or start chasing her.

Even when you feel like your interest in her is soaring never let your emotions get the better of you.

Never think that by pouring out all your emotions on the girl, she will like you more.

It will just make you look unattractive in the woman’s eyes. This is where so many guys lose with beautiful women!

They become much more interested and invested in the woman than she is in them.

It is ok to feel like the woman you are dating is exciting, attractive and lovely.

The problem comes when you start over-investing in her, making her think that she so special, becoming needy and insecure.

As I said, you should learn to control your emotions.

The moment you start letting all your emotions out, it will mark the beginning of the woman’s loss of attraction to you.

A woman became attracted to you because of your attractive traits like confidence, strength and emotional stability.

She didn’t decide to be with you just because you thought she was very special or simply because you were so interested in her.

And chances are, she left other guys who were so attracted to her and who thought she was exceedingly special.

The problem with becoming too interested in a woman than she is in you is that you often become needy, insecure and always needing a woman’s validation.

All these traits make any man look less attractive to any woman.

And she will often leave you the moment you start displaying all those unattractive behaviours.

You never want to show a woman that you are so interested in her, otherwise, she may pull away.

You have to always lead your interactions with women but not chasing.

Leading a woman is attractive but chasing a woman is unattractive.

So how can you tell whether you are chasing or leading a woman?

I’m going to illustrate this using examples.

Asking a woman out for a date is leading but continuing to ask a woman out again and again, after declining your first request, is chasing.

When you are leaning in and a woman is leaning away, you are chasing.

Asking a woman open-ended questions on a date is leading but bragging, talking too much and trying to impress her is chasing.

Asking a woman back to your place is leading but begging and pleading to have sex with her is chasing.

Buying your girlfriend an expensive dinner is leading but buying an expensive dinner on your first date is chasing.

Talking to a woman who shows interest in you is leading but trying to come up with the perfect word to say to a woman is chasing.

Bragging is chasing.

Wanting to spend all the time with a woman when she isn’t interested in chasing.

Asking a girl, verbally, to become your girlfriend is chasing but being exciting, fun, confident, assertive and focusing on achieving your goals until the woman starts introducing you to her parents or close friends (aka wants you to be her official boyfriend), is leading.

When you start chasing a woman, she will often lose attraction for you.

When you practice the above four steps in their order, you will have more success with attractive women.

Other forms of chasing a woman

• Texting the woman all-day.

• Always looking for proof that the girl loves you.

• Craving to hang out with the girl all the time: Even when she doesn’t feel like it, a worst-case scenario!

• Contacting the woman all-day, and every day. She needs space to miss you.

• Showing feelings of jealousy whenever she converses or hangs out with her guy colleagues.

Some of you might be thinking that it’s “love”…

News flash bro, that’s NEEDINESS!

Any gorgeous girl with plenty of options will feel turned off 98% of the time.

Note: This post may contain affiliate links. That means I may earn a small commission at no additional cost to you if you click and make a purchase. I only recommend products I know and trust.

To Recap.

You will stop driving away women who are interested in you because you developed so much interest in the woman and you ended up chasing her.

It will prevent you from entering the dreaded friend zone.

In summary,

If you want to take your interactions with women to another level, and easily turn the attractive woman into your girlfriend;

#1. Lead your interactions with a woman.

#2. Let the woman chase you.

#3. Reward the woman when she chases you.

#4. Do not chase her.

I hope this article has helped you learn how to effectively get an attractive woman who is interested in you to become your girlfriend without trying hard and pushing her away.

Don’t hesitate to share this article with friends if you have dug it.

And don’t forget to check out eharmony to meet awesome women of any age who are interested in serious relationships. eharmony has a matching system to ensure you are matched with women who have the exact kind of personality, and age bracket you want.
If you want to get a girlfriend, you should join eharmony now for FREE!

That’s it, friend.

 

Do you keep driving away attractive women who become attracted to you?

Well, in this article am going to discuss 4 simple steps to turn an attractive woman into your girlfriend by; One: leading your interactions with the woman, Two: encouraging the woman to chase you, Three: rewarding the woman when she chases you, Four: not chasing her, and repeating the steps.

When you master these specific steps, you will easily get laid or easily turn an attractive woman into your girlfriend.

You will learn how to not drive away attractive women you are attracted to.

But before we look at the specific ways to turn an attractive woman into your girlfriend, you must have to first consider the following factors;

i) The attractive woman must have some bit of interest in you.

Your chances of getting a woman who has no interest in you at all are extremely small to none.

Anyone who tells you the opposite is lying to you or just wants to take your money.

Trying to pursue a woman who has no interest in you is a complete waste of your precious time.

The time that can be spent pursuing attractive women who are interested in you.

ii) The woman must be available.

Even if the attractive woman shows you signals of interest, it is not enough, she must be available as well.

It won’t make any sense.

For example, the woman might be living far away from your geographical location and you are not in a position to meet up.

Or…

She could be having a boyfriend or married.

Trying to pursue a woman who isn’t available will be a waste of your precious time, if at all possible.

How Can You Turn An Attractive Woman Into Your Girlfriend?

Man with beauitiful girlfriend.

These are the four ways you can lead your relations with an attractive woman and turn her into your girlfriend.

Lead the interaction

Let and encourage her to chase you.

When she chases you, reward her

Do not chase her

Then repeat the four processes.

When implementing these four specific ways, you lead your interactions with the attractive woman as you encourage her to chase you.

When she begins to chase you, reward her for chasing you because this is where most men screw up.

They screw up by not rewarding the woman for chasing them.

When a woman starts to chase you and you show disinterest by acting cold, she will immediately give up and lose interest.

Other men make a mistake of becoming too interested in the woman too early and, then end chasing the woman.

When you start chasing a woman, you look unattractive. This will cause the woman to dump you.

If a woman starts to chase you, make sure you reward her to keep chasing, at the same time, not chasing her.

Step #1. Lead your interactions with a woman.

As a man, you must always lead your interactions with women. You have to always make the first move.

It is your role to initiate interactions that lead to sex.

A woman will show that she is interested in you but, she will never lead and make the first move.

No matter how outgoing and assertive she may be.

Even if the woman is a president or the CEO of a very big company, she will not take the responsibility for sex.

Some men are guilty of wanting to let women lead to sexual interactions.

This is especially true for shy and nice guys.

Letting a woman lead an interaction will turn her off.

It will turn the woman off because women are attracted to men who possess leadership traits like being decisive and having a plan.

Never believe in some things you see in movies when it comes to dating.

They rarely happen in real life.

For example, in a movie, you watch a shy guy who is interested in a girl but scared to make a move.

The girl goes on and makes the first move on the guy by going for the kiss or initiating sex.

Am not saying that being shy is a very bad thing nor should you beat yourself up for being shy.

I’m a naturally shy and an introverted guy as well.

However, you can be shy and, at the same time, be confident, bold and go after you want without seeking anyone’s approval.

Again don’t be a nice guy (hahaha).

Neither should you become the opposite- a jerk.

You have to become an alpha male, a high-value guy. And this is what you will exactly learn if you keep reading my content.

You will learn how to become an alpha male who can effortlessly attract and keep high-quality women.

You need to become an alpha male, not a jerk.

Even though jerks are more attractive, on a primal level, to women than nice guys jerks only keep girls who are messed up and, have low self-esteem.

If you wait for a woman to lead or take initiative, you may have to wait for a very long time.

If a woman shows interest in you and does not make a move, she will just assume that you are simply not interested in her.

As I said, women don’t like to take responsibility for sex. If you let her take the lead, she will be turned off.

Another reason women don’t make a move on guys they find attractive is that they fear rejection. Women fear rejection more than men do.

She can’t ask you out because she will be risking rejection.

She avoids feelings of disappointment and failure like any other person.

As a man, you should always expect yourself to lead your interactions with women who show interest in you.

Women, especially those who are a bit more assertive, also avoid initiating interactions that lead to sex because they want to avoid being labelled as sluts.

They fear being judged by society. Any average girl will do whatever it takes not to be labelled a slut.

Women love sex just like, if not more than, men.

If you want to easily have sex with a woman, never judge her sexual behaviours.

This is one of the top reasons why nice guys always finish last when it comes to dating attractive women.

They judge sexually assertive women. They judge women who go after their sexual desires.

They never realise that women do love sex, a lot.

Nice guys make a mistake of treating attractive women like innocent princesses that do not like sex.

Beautiful women do not delay having sex with an alpha male because he treats her like a normal human who loves sex as he does.

And the woman acts accordingly.

How do you lead your interactions with women?

If a woman indicates signals of interest, let’s say, she is seated by herself keeps eye contact with you and then smiles, you have to walk up to her start a short conversation, ask her out right there and then or you take her contact if she has no time.

After taking her number, you will have to plan a date and then ask her out to join you for a specific activity, at a specific time, place and day.

Another example, it can be a girl in your social circle who shows signals of interest like touching you very often, laughing at your normal statements as if they are the funniest in the world, paying the most attention when you are talking to a group of friends.

If you are interested in the woman, then you will have to make a move by, for example, asking her to hang out.

If you delay making a move, her interest in you will fall. You need to hit the iron while it’s still hot.

As I said, women do not want to take responsibility for sex.

Even if she is interested in you, she is most likely not to make any move on you.

When you do not make a move on her, she will likely be typing in google or bing and even asking her friends something like “how can I make my crush to ask me out?”.

And chances are, her ‘crush’ will also be interested in her.

If you are interested in a woman who is also interested in you but, you delay making a move you may end up into the friend zone.

Later on, after gathering the guts to make a move, it will become so hard for you to move out of the friendzone.

So when you are interested in making a girl become your girlfriend, then you need to take initiative and lead her.

As I said, even if she is so interested in you she will never take the initiative.

The best thing she can do is to show you signals of interest.

Step #2. Let the woman chase you.

A woman who is chasing will never leave you because she can’t chase you and, at the same time, leave you.

This seems to contradict because it is hard for the majority of men to distinguish pursuing a woman from chasing.

Pursuing a woman simply involves actions that lead your interactions with women towards the bedroom or a relationship.

Chasing involves behaviours where you are over pursuing a woman, seeking for her validation and approval.

The thing is, the woman started to chase you the moment she started showing signs of interest in you.

She was chasing by wanting you to make a move on her.

Women love chasing men and they are turned off by men who are constantly chasing after them.

And this is something that most women wouldn’t verbally agree with.

When it comes to attracting women, you have to alwalook output for a woman’s behaviour not what she says she wants.

When a woman starts to chase you, it will raise your value in her eyes.

She will respect you and love you a lot when she knows that she had to put in some work to get your affections.

Here are some examples of how you can encourage a woman to chase you;

Leaving conversations on a high note.

Not leaning in when standing or sitting beside her. You should let her be the one to lean into you.

Not always being the first one to contact her by text or phone call.

After your first or second date, you have to let the woman reach out to you first.

Giving the woman space to miss you.

When talking to a woman you have just met, you have to point only part of your body towards her and let her do the opposite.

So how do you get an attractive woman to become your girlfriend?

You should encourage the woman to chase you. When she chases you, she will subconsciously feel like you are an attractive guy.

When a woman is chasing you, she can easily commit to you and become your girlfriend.

Step #3. When she chases you, reward her.

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When some guys learn that a woman becomes more attracted to you when you push her away, they make a mistake of overdoing it.

They keep on pushing the woman away.

This doesn’t work because any woman with healthy self-esteem will give up and walk away.

When a woman starts to chase you, reward her by giving her more of your attention.

This is a concept known as the push-pull.

You push her away by letting her chase you and pull her when you give her more attention.

Examples of rewarding her for chasing you;

When you approach a girl and she is answering your questions in detail or laughing at your jokes you can now give her more of your attention by starting to lean into her sometimes.

When she initiates conversations over text or by calling you first after your first date, you can set up a second date (leading) or invite her back to your place.

When she does something for you (chasing you), let her do it and show her that you genuinely appreciate her efforts (reward).

Many guys are guilty of belittling good things women do for them.

Never say things like “Noo, you did not need to buy that”.

This shows that you are unworthy of the very good things a woman is doing for you.

This will discourage a woman from doing good things for you and chasing you.

Remember, you want a woman to be always doing good things for you.

That is when she will value you more and become more attracted to you.

Unfortunately, many guys think that the reverse is true.

Many guys think that a woman will love them more if they are the ones doing more good things for the woman.

The more good things a woman does for you, the more she likes you.

The more you invest in a woman, the more you value her not the way round.

When she compliments you (chasing you), accept the compliment (reward). Never ignore a woman’s compliment.

When you reward a woman for chasing you by giving her more of your attention, she will feel like she has earned your affections.

This will make her value you more. She will easily commit to you as your girlfriend because she will feel a sense of accomplishment.

Step #4. Do not chase her.

You should never get too interested in a woman if you do not want her to pull away or start chasing her.

Even when you feel like your interest in her is soaring never let your emotions get the better of you.

Never think that by pouring out all your emotions on the girl, she will like you more.

It will just make you look unattractive in the woman’s eyes. This is where so many guys lose with beautiful women!

They become much more interested and invested in the woman than she is in them.

It is ok to feel like the woman you are dating is exciting, attractive and lovely.

The problem comes when you start over-investing in her, making her think that she so special, becoming needy and insecure.

As I said, you should learn to control your emotions.

The moment you start letting all your emotions out, it will mark the beginning of the woman’s loss of attraction to you.

A woman became attracted to you because of your attractive traits like confidence, strength and emotional stability.

She didn’t decide to be with you just because you thought she was very special or simply because you were so interested in her.

And chances are, she left other guys who were so attracted to her and who thought she was exceedingly special.

The problem with becoming too interested in a woman than she is in you is that you often become needy, insecure and always needing a woman’s validation.

All these traits make any man look less attractive to any woman.

And she will often leave you the moment you start displaying all those unattractive behaviours.

You never want to show a woman that you are so interested in her, otherwise, she may pull away.

You have to always lead your interactions with women but not chasing.

Leading a woman is attractive but chasing a woman is unattractive.

So how can you tell whether you are chasing or leading a woman?

I’m going to illustrate this using examples.

Asking a woman out for a date is leading but continuing to ask a woman out again and again, after declining your first request, is chasing.

When you are leaning in and a woman is leaning away, you are chasing.

Asking a woman open-ended questions on a date is leading but bragging, talking too much and trying to impress her is chasing.

Asking a woman back to your place is leading but begging and pleading to have sex with her is chasing.

Buying your girlfriend an expensive dinner is leading but buying an expensive dinner on your first date is chasing.

Talking to a woman who shows interest in you is leading but trying to come up with the perfect word to say to a woman is chasing.

Bragging is chasing.

Wanting to spend all the time with a woman when she isn’t interested in chasing.

Asking a girl, verbally, to become your girlfriend is chasing but being exciting, fun, confident, assertive and focusing on achieving your goals until the woman starts introducing you to her parents or close friends (aka wants you to be her official boyfriend), is leading.

When you start chasing a woman, she will often lose attraction for you.

When you practice the above four steps in their order, you will have more success with attractive women.

Other forms of chasing a woman

• Texting the woman all-day.

• Always looking for proof that the girl loves you.

• Craving to hang out with the girl all the time: Even when she doesn’t feel like it, a worst-case scenario!

• Contacting the woman all-day, and every day. She needs space to miss you.

• Showing feelings of jealousy whenever she converses or hangs out with her guy colleagues.

Some of you might be thinking that it’s “love”…

News flash bro, that’s NEEDINESS!

Any gorgeous girl with plenty of options will feel turned off 98% of the time.

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To Recap.

You will stop driving away women who are interested in you because you developed so much interest in the woman and you ended up chasing her.

It will prevent you from entering the dreaded friend zone.

In summary,

If you want to take your interactions with women to another level, and easily turn the attractive woman into your girlfriend;

#1. Lead your interactions with a woman.

#2. Let the woman chase you.

#3. Reward the woman when she chases you.

#4. Do not chase her.

I hope this article has helped you learn how to effectively get an attractive woman who is interested in you to become your girlfriend without trying hard and pushing her away.

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