Why Girls Like Bad Boys (Bad Boys, Nice Guys And Jerks)

Becoming a bad boy will have more to do with developing traits and a mentality that bad boys possess.

Honestly, this may take you some good time. But it will be worth it.

Becoming a bad boy will help you in a ton of different ways besides attracting girls.

Actually, if you become a bad boy, attracting hot girls will just be a side effect.

Your life in general will improve.

First and foremost, one thing you need to note is that you must not confuse a bad boy with a jerk or an asshole.

Many people out there confuse bad boys with jerks.

Jerks or assholes are guys who do not care about anyone else other than themselves.

The reason jerks are confused with bad boys is because jerks possess some qualities of bad boys like not caring too much about what other people think of them.

However, jerks take it to the extreme.

The second reason why jerks are often confused with bad boys is because of nice guys who try to become bad boys.

Girls like nice guys because everyone wants to be with nice people. But most girls are not sexually attracted to nice guys.

On a primal level, traits of nice guys make them look less attractive to girls.

Why are nice guys not attractive?

• Nice guys are needy

• They put girls on a pedestal so they try to impress hot girls

• They are indecisive and let girls lead

• Nice guys are boring

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• Nice guys are predictable

• Nice guys are timid

• Nice guys are people, pleasers because they tiptoe around people not to offend them.

So when some nice guys realise that being nice makes them look less attractive, they just turn into the extreme opposite. They become jerks.

As I said, jerks have some qualities of bad boys that nice guys lack.

For example, like bad boys, jerks do not try to impress girls, they are not needy and do not put hot girls on a pedestal.

So nice guys often see some results when they turn into jerks.

However, you shouldn’t become a jerk because girls who stay with jerks have low self-esteem, are too dramatic and are not relationship material.

Jerks often get hot girls who do not have much going on in their lives besides looks.

An independent girl who has healthy self-esteem and has a lot of good things going on in her life will never stay with a jerk.

She will never go with a guy who abused her. She will never go with a guy who is disrespectful and dishonest.

A high-value girl will go with a bad boy who respects her (and women in general) but doesn’t need her approval and validation.

Similarly, a jerk may not seek a girl’s approval and validation (which is good) but he is dishonest and disrespectful.

A girl will go with the bad boy who leads her, at the same time, not controlling her. This is not true for a nice guy.

Because of the nice guy’s jealousy, that springs from his neediness, he will often turn into a control freak.

Bad boys are given the name “bad” not because they are bad.

They are given the name “bad” because they are the opposite of nice guys.

They are given the name “bad” because they care less about what others think of them and will say what they think without seeking anyone else’s approval.

Because of this, bad boys are leaders in society and many look up to them.

On the other hand, some nice guys are naturally too nice.

They are people pleasers.

They waste a lot of time worrying about what others think of them, their opinions and their actions.

This makes nice guys look indecisive.

Caring too much about what others think of them makes nice guys avoid rejection and failure like a plague.

However, most nice guys aren’t actually “nice”.

They are nice with an agenda. They are nice to hot girls because they want sex or date them.

Girls see through this. Girls ain’t stupid. You shouldn’t be nice to hot girls only. You should be nice to everyone.

If you are being nice to a girl with an agenda of having sex, you will look dumb and weak.

When a girl leaves the nice guys but goes on to have sex with a bad boy who isn’t trying to impress her and not putting her on a pedestal, the nice guys start complaining.

They complain that girls do not like them yet they are being nice to them.

One of the reasons girls do not like nice guys is because girls consider nice guys to be manipulative.

They buy a girl all the nice dinners, take the girl for expensive shopping and buy her beautiful flowers as a manipulative attempt to have sex with the girl.

The truth is those nice guys shouldn’t be complaining because they aren’t authentic. They are manipulative.

Do not be nice with an agenda. If you are nice, be nice to everyone without expecting anything in return.

And be nice to those who deserve it. Never be nice to anyone who is trying to walk all over you.

And never be a jerk. Treat everyone with respect so long as they deserve it.

Do girls like bad boys? Yeah, girls do like bad boys. Girls like bad boys not because they are “bad” but because of the attractive traits they possess.

Girls like bad boys because of there traits that attract girls on a primal level. Girls like bad boys because of their traits like Confidence, assertiveness, dominance, leadership decisiveness, unpredictability, carefreeness, mystery, unreactivity, authenticity, unique style and nice physic.

Why do girls like bad boys?

As I said, girls like bad boys because they have attractive personalities and traits.

#1. Bad boys are dominant.

Girls find bad boys irresistible because bad boys are dominant.

They carry themselves with dominant behaviours.

And am not talking about jerks who go around barking at everyone with a loud ass voice.

This doesn’t mean that bad boys go around displaying their dominance by putting everyone down.

Bad boys convey their dominance through their body language.

They convey their dominance by the way they carry themselves.

They send nonverbal cues that tell everyone that “hey, am cool and attractive”.

What are the dominant and confident behaviours that make girls like bad boys?

i) They speak slow.

Bad boys do not speak fast because they aren’t scared of anything. They are not on a rush.

A bad boy speaks slow and this shows girls that he is confident in himself and not anxious.

ii) A bad boy walks slow.

He walks slowly because he is not in a hurry. Nice guys tend to walk very fast because they are scared of the people around.

A bad boy takes slow and shoulders wide steps which makes the bad boy look incredibly sexy.

Taking quick and short steps is feminine. It makes any guy doing it look girly. It is turn off for girls. It is never sexy if a guy does it.

iii) A bad boy makes strong eye contact

A lot of guys are guilty of making weak eye contact with girls. Strong eye contact shows confidence.

Weak eye contact shows weakness and lack of confidence.

So when a bad boy makes very strong eye contact with a girl, she becomes attracted to the bad boy because of his strength and confidence.

Prolonged strong eye contact makes the bad boy look incredibly sexy to the girl.

iv) The bad boy walks with his head high

This is a sign that he is sure of himself and a winner in life.

Nice guys are guilty of walking while looking down which makes them look unattractive.

v) He walks straight.

It shows that you are a loser whenever you walk with your head down. It shows that your life is miserable.

Walking with a slouchy posture communicates to girls that you are the loser. It shows weakness.

On a primal level, girls will find you attractive if you walk with straight posture because it shows you are physically strong.

You will be communicating to any girl’s primal part of the brain that you will be able to protect her and her offspring.

A straight posture of a bad boy tells girls that he is a potential mate.

vi) Bad boys have an open body language

An open body language communicates to girls that he strong and not scared of the world.

The bad boy will look strong because he is making himself vulnerable. It shows girls that he ain’t scared of nothing.

A closed body language shows that a guy is weak and hiding from the world.

He is hiding from the world because he is weak and can’t protect himself.

If a girl sees a nice guy with a closed body language, her primal instinct will be telling her something like “hey, how will he protect me yet he is hiding from the world?”

Vii) A bad boy speaks with a clear and loud voice

His voice is clear and loud because he isn’t afraid to speak his mind.

He doesn’t care so much about what others think of him. He isn’t scared of being judged.

Speaking with a soft voice makes a guy seem like a girl. It makes him look feminine.

And girls are attracted to masculinity and repelled by femininity.

#2. Bad boys are carefree

Bad boys possess a sexy carefree vibe that girls find irresistible. They do what they want, when they want and how they want.

This makes the life of a bad boy fun and super exciting because he doesn’t take himself and girls too seriously.

So girls want to spend all their time with the bad boys. Bad boys do not care what other people think of them.

A bad boy cares less if a girl likes him or not. When he sees a hot girl, he walks straight up to her without hesitation.

He doesn’t care if he will be rejected or not. And girls find this attitude super attractive.

It’s super attractive because guys like that are rare. A guy who is not phased if a girl likes him or not.

A guy who isn’t needy. A guy who is carefree and doesn’t need a girl’s validation or approval.

#3. Bad boys are decisive

Bad boys are decisive and go after what they want without beating around the bush.

When a bad boy sees the girl he wants, he goes after her without second-guessing himself.

When asks a girl out, he has a plan for the date. He doesn’t ask the girl for what to do. He doesn’t first seek for a girl’s permission.

He makes a decision and sticks to it. He doesn’t easily change his decision once he has made up his mind.

#4. They have a sense of humour.

Girls like bad boys because of their sense of humour.

For this reason, it makes bad boys fun to hang around. They never take themselves and life too seriously.

It’s for this reason that girls feel comfortable around bad boys. Girls feel comfortable around a bad boy because he will never judge them.

A bad boy knows that girls too, love sex. Just like he does. So girls will easily have sex with a bad boy.

#5. Bad boys are unpredictable.

Their unpredictability makes bad boys exciting. A girl will never guess what he is about to do next.

Girls aren’t attracted to nice guys because they are the exact opposite, predictable and boring.

On the other hand, a bad boy will always keep the girl guessing. His girl can’t predict his next move.

He won’t always be eager to reply to her texts and phone calls. Above all, the girl isn’t so sure if the bad boy is all hers or not.

When a girl is dating a nice guy, she will always be sure that he will be there whenever she wants him.

#6. They are a challenge.

Girls find bad boys so attractive because bad boys are challenged to girls. He is not a sure thing for the girl.

He assumes that he can attract any hot girl. A bad boy knows that there are many pretty girls out there.

He is willing to walk away from a girl so this keeps him as a challenge for the girl.

Girls love a challenge. So that when a bad boy finally settles down with a girl, she will feel like she earned his affections.

Girls find nice guys less attractive because nice guys are easy to get. They aren’t a challenge.

She knows she can have the nice guy anytime.

#7. Bad boys are unreactive.

Bad boys are not phased by pitty things that take place around them. They remain focused on what is important.

When a nice guy or jerk says something to demean a bad boy, he remains in control.

He doesn’t become reactive, enter an argument or act defensively. He acts as nothing has happened.

Because bad boys are always cool and calm, girls find them incredibly sexy.

#8. Bad boys are leaders

Bad boys have incredible leadership skills because they take initiative.

If something needs to be done, the bad boy doesn’t just sit there to wait for permission or the right time.

He just goes ahead and does what is necessary. This makes other men to naturally follow him. Bad boys are also men of action.

They do what needs to be done without procrastinating and thinking too much about a situation.

So this makes bad boys have a higher social status. This attracts girls because girls put a lot of emphasis on a guy’s social status.

#9. Bad boys live there life.

Girls like bad boys because bad boys put a lot of focus on creating a life they want. Bad boys create awesome lives that are worth living.

This makes girls want to date bad boys so that they can be part of the bad boy’s awesome life.

Even if a bad boy gets a hot girl, he doesn’t put all his happiness on the girl.

On the other hand, when a nice guy starts to date a hot girl, he immediately makes her the most important thing in his life.

The nice guy will drop his hobbies, goals and friends because he is dating a hot girl.

After some time, the nice guy starts to become clingy which makes the girl lose attraction for him.

He becomes needy because he is placing all his happiness in the hot girl. And girls resent neediness.

#10. Bad boys dress well.

Attractive confident bad boys

It is extremely rare to find a bad boy dressed like a slob. Girls like bad boys because bad boys have a keen sense of dressing style.

They dress in clothes that are slim fit with appropriate accessories. This makes bad boys look so attractive to girls.

They look so attractive because they are not dressed like any average guy.

#11. Bad boys hit the gym.

Girls like bad boys because they have an awesome physique. Bad boys are often in shape.

Exercise increases the levels of testosterone which raises their confidence.

This confidence makes them attractive to girls.

#12. Bad boys are authentic

Bad boys are true to themselves. When he likes you, he won’t hide it.

When you do something he doesn’t want he will let you know.

If a girl acts inappropriately or disrespectfully, the bad boy will call her on it.

Girls are attracted to bad boys because a bad boy is not a pushover.

Girls are less attracted to nice guys because nice guys do not stand up for their values for fear of offending the girl.

Yes, the girl will feel happy because she wasn’t offended but she will never respect the nice guy.

And girls are never attracted to guys they do not respect. Girls are never attracted to guys they can walk all over.

Final thoughts

Girls do prefer bad boys to nice guys. Girls like bad boys because of the traits that attract them on a primal level.

Many of these traits are also very important to his life besides dating. So bad boys are often either successful in life or famous.

This makes bad boys even more attractive to girls.

Why do girls like bad boys?

Girls like bad boys because bad boys;

• Are dominant

• Are Carefree

• Are decisive

• Have a sense of humour

• Are unpredictable

• Are a challenge to girls

• Are unreactive

• Are leaders

• Live a life they want

• Dress well

• Hit the gym

• Authentic

I hope this article has helped you (and hey, if you think it’s cool, I’d appreciate it if you’d share on social media.)


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