You’ve been texting a girl, but she stopped replying all of a sudden.
This has left you confused and worried.
You just don’t know what to do next.
Should You Give Up When A Girl Doesn’t Text Back?
Well, the simple answer is NO! You shouldn’t always give up whenever a girl doesn’t reply to your text.
If a woman doesn’t text back, it won’t necessarily mean that she isn’t interested in you.
A girl might be interested in you, but fail to reply to your message for a couple of reasons.
So you shouldn’t easily give up when you don’t get a reply.
The reasons for not answering back may include, but not limited to;
- She might have been busy and forgot to text back.
- Didn’t see your message.
- Had not saved your number.
- Playing hard to get.
- Sh*t testing you.
- She’s just lazy at texting.
How Do You Know If She’s Really Interested When She Doesn’t Text Back.
If she doesn’t message you, wait and text her something simple and fun after a day or two.
If the girl is still interested but didn’t text back for whatever reason, she will get back to you.
A girl who is interested in you will always have time for you.
When she doesn’t text back for the second time, it will clearly indicate that she doesn’t feel attracted to you.
So at this point, you won’t need to text her for the third time.
You will need to move on.
Your chances of getting her will be minimal, if at all.
It will also kill your self-esteem and self-confidence.
That being said, you may want to call her if all fails.
As I said, she might not be into texting.
If she picks, well and good. If she doesn’t, you will have to, and must, move on.
Don’t start to chase her by pleading, begging, and trying to convince her to like you.
It will be much less likely to work. You will be acting needy and desperate if you keep texting her.
Even if it works, you don’t want to stay with a woman who feels like she’s doing you a favour by staying with you.
Instead of chasing a girl who is ignoring you, spend that time pursuing women who are interested in you.
Why She Doesn’t Let You Know Directly If She Isn’t Interested.
A girl who has no romantic feelings for you will rarely say no to you.
First, she simply doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
Girls are brought up to from an early age and are expected by society to be nice and avoid acting rude.
By not saying “I’m not interested in you”, to her, it will be a sign that she is being nice.
Secondly, girls naturally prefer communicating their sexual interest using indirect and non-verbal means.
To her, the fact that she is not replying to your texts or avoiding to pick your calls is a clear signal she isn’t interested in you.
Similarly, when a woman is interested in you, she will be less likely to communicate that to you directly.
She will be less likely to be like “Hi, I’m interested in you”.
Thirdly, she doesn’t want to get a negative response from you.
The last guy she said no to wasn’t confident enough and didn’t take it well.
So he ended up insulting her.
Again, you should never get reactive when a girl doesn’t text back.
It is a low-esteem thing to do.
Fourth, she gets a lot of attention from a ton of guys. So it easy to just ignore a guy who she isn’t interested in.
That being said, sometimes you may need to pick up the phone and call.
You should also not take texting girls too seriously.
Your texts need to be light and casual.