What if you knew one psychological trick that can make you attract most hot girls effortlessly?
A psychological trick that can help you keep your hot girlfriend always attracted to you?
With this psychological trick, you don’t need to have a ton of money neither do you need to be the hottest guy.
Has the following ever happened to you?
You and your ideal girl have decided to commit to each other.
Your girl has moved in with you and you are now officially boyfriend and girlfriend or even planning to get married.
Things seem to be fun, but after a few weeks, months or years…
you start to notice that the more you start compromising with your girlfriend, the more you try to please her, the more power you give her in the relationship….
the less she starts to respect you and the more attraction she loses for you.
Signs that your girlfriend is losing interest
- She’s nolonger treating you right.
- She starts to get disrespectful.
- Treats you with low value.
- Not appreciating you.
- Always challenging your leadership.
- No longer willing to cook or clean.
- Getting too dramatic even on the small things. She’s always nagging you.
- She starts to feel less excited about spending time with you.
What should you do to keep your girlfriend always attracted to you?
Be genuinely willing to walk away from the relationship.
Having the willingness to genuinely walk away from a woman is the number one weapon that you have as a man.
When a girl knows that you can walk away from her at any time, she will value you a lot.
Your girlfriend will have a lot of respect for you and her love for you will always be high.
The problem is most guys don’t have the power and willingness to walk away from a girl.
Most guys have a scarcity mindset.
What does having a scarcity mindset mean?
It’s a thinking that you’ve got no other options other than that one girl you’re dating.
So you become super terrified of losing her affection and attention.
Whether you are dating her casually, out on a date and especially when you are in a long term relationship with her…..
you have to always demonstrate the willingness to walk away.
More so if a girl starts disrespecting you.
The thing you have to understand about women is that, when she knows that she is your only option and you can’t go out there to attract other women, that’s when she will treat you the absolute worst.
That’s when she will start doing all sorts of bitchy and nasty things.
Why do girls lose interest in guys who signal a lack of dating options?
i) She no longer considers you as a badass, strong, confident and independent man.
Otherwise, you wouldn’t be putting up with her bitchy behaviours and not willing to leave her.
ii) She takes you as a boring, low-value guy who other beautiful women are not attracted to.
She thinks you have no options and you can’t walk away from her.
Don’t let her get away with it. Stand up for yourself.
Show her that you can actually go out there and attract other women just like, if not better than, her.
How Can You Keep Her Interested By Willing To Walk Away?
Here are the ways you can develop the willingness to walk away from a girl.
- Develop an abundance mentality.
- Never compromise your core values.
- Never try proving your value to any girl.
- Do not develop oneitis
Let’s get straight to the details, shall we?
1. You must develop an abundance mentality
You should realise that there are a lot of beautiful and young girls out there.
You should realise that you can walk out and get hot girls.
So many guys simply believe that if their girlfriend left them, they may fail to replace her.
Hence, they get clingy and needy.
You will easily compromise your values if you are not willing to walk away from a girl.
By, for example, tolerating her bad behaviour.
And that’s the last thing you want to do.
For example, if go out on a date and the girl isn’t putting any effort to talk to you or she is always checking her phone.
That’s disrespectful and impolite.
You can call her out on her bad behaviour or else, you leave the date.
That takes some balls and hard to pull off. Especially if she’s hot.
I know because I have been disrespected by girls on first dates a couple of times.
But it’s absolutely necessary.
Some guys will make a mistake in such a situation.
By doing the exact opposite.
They will instead try hard to impress the girl and be nice to get more of the girl’s attention.
The point I’m trying to make is that, always punish her for the bad behaviour by withdrawing your attention.
And reward her good behaviour by giving more attention like taking her for an expensive date or surprising her with a gift.
But you can pull that off only if you’re willing to walk away and have an abundance mentality.
Most times, a girl will disrespect you just to test your boundaries.
She wants to see whether the man she is dating is a strong, high-value man.
She wants to see whether you can stand up for your values and what you believe in.
This brings me to the next point
#2. Never compromise your core values
Values are the things you believe in and are important in your life. Things that help you provide guidelines for your actions and key decisions.
Here is a list of a few values.
Your core values are values that rank above the rest.
When a girl does something that goes against your core values, be willing to call her out on it.
For example, if you value honesty and your girlfriend keeps on lying to you and cheating….
it’s time for you to move on to other girls who shall respect your values.
Let me provide you with another example.
Assuming you’re a guy who is humorous and doesn’t take himself so seriously.
You approach a girl and tease her, but she takes your joke too seriously, it means she doesn’t match up to your values.
It means you have to leave her and go for other girls no matter how beautiful she may be.
Basically, always communicate your core values to your girlfriend. Show her that you won’t tolerate her if she disrespects them from time to time.
If you are willing to choose to lose a beautiful girl over your values, it will show your girlfriend that you are a strong, high-value man who doesn’t put her on a pedestal.
She will love you more for it in the long run.
It will show her that you are a rare commodity since too many guys can’t stand up for their values in attempts of trying to impress a girl and from fear of losing her affections.
This will also help you attract beautiful girls so that walking away from her will be super easy.
#3. You do not need to prove your value to any girl.
How do you pull that off?
Anything you do for her and, the attention you give her is on the condition for her having earned it.
So that when you finally decide to walk away from her after failing to meet your standards, you won’t have much to lose.
I always see a lot of guys who do this silly dating mistake.
They try to impress girls by revealing their earning potential, buying girls expensive gifts which they have not even earned.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t buy your girlfriend expensive gifts.
As I said earlier, you should do it after her having earned it.
You shouldn’t do it after she has disrespected you or because you think you need to earn her affections.
When you do a lot of good things for your girlfriend when she has not earned it…
it shows signals one thing to her: that her value is higher than yours.
Other wise why would you be investing in the relationship way more than she’s doing?
So that makes it hard for you to walk away from your girlfriend considering the time, energy, emotions and money you have invested in her.
So you should always consider yourself as a high-value guy.
Let me repeat this statement because it is too good damn important.
Anything you do for her and, the attention you give her is on the condition for her having earned it.
Over investing in girls is what makes it hard for the majority of guys to walk away from their girlfriends and get over them.
4. Do not develop oneitis.
First and foremost.
What does oneitis mean?
Oneitis is an unhealthy attraction towards one girl excluding other potential girlfriends.
Oneitis is not usually something that guys do develop at will.
It comes as a result of bad habits and a poor mindset. That’s what I’m going to showing you and how to avoid them.
What’s that one poor mindset that causes oneitis?
Thinking that you and the girl are soul mates. Thinking that she is very special and a one of the kind.
Realise and always affirm to yourself that “There are millions of young and pretty girls outside there just like her. More beautiful than you could ever date.”
Never make her the main source of your happiness.
She’ll resent you for it.
After all, it’s the biggest burden you’ll ever ask anyone to carry.
What you need to do when get into a relationship with a woman you adore and avoid oneitis.
- Keep doing most of the fun things you were doing before the relationship.
- Hang out with friends or family. Call an old friend and hang out.
- Don’t throw away your hobbies. Create new hobbies.
- Continue focusing more on your business, keep focusing on your purpose in life and work harder to achieve your goals.
- Realise that a woman should be part of your happiness, not the whole thing.
This way, when your girl misbehaves and not willing to change, you can easily walk away and get over her quickly.
Walking away from your girlfriend really sucks and so painful.
But it will get you huge benefits in the long run.
When you are willing to genuinely walk away from a girl, it will make her chase you.
Girls like to chase a guy. If she chases you, she will treat you like a high-value guy.
With that said, however, make sure that you add value to the girl’s life.
So, continue working on your career and goals.
This will keep you as a high-value guy who will have something to add to your girlfriend’s life.
If you have nothing to add to her life, you might as well walk away from her without her feeling any loss.
And this doesn’t mean only buying her expensive physical staff or taking her for expensive trips and vacations.
You can provide her value by being an exciting boyfriend who is unpredictable and giving her good sex which can make her addicted to you.
Whatever you do, never become a leech to your girlfriend. Have your own life.