She texts back every time you send her a message, but she won’t go on a date with you.
She goes on dates with you, but won’t let you have the cookie.
Does that mean she likes you or the reverse is true?
There’s a problem with girls’ signals of interest…
Some girls will show signs that they like you yet they are just being flirty.
A girl may show signs that she likes you just to lead you on. She may just want your attention and nothing else.
You will need to test girls’ interest to see which girls are worth pursuing and girls that just need to be left alone.
And that’s why I’m here with you today.
You do not want to waste your time pursuing girls who are just flirty and only after your attention.
You need to spend your time on girls who are interested in you.
How do you test to know if a girl likes you?
The reason why these tests are so effective is that they are subconscious.
It is hard for a girl to fake them because she doesn’t even think about the response.
Test #1. Make mildly witty statements when she is around
Any girl who is interested in you will often laugh at your slightly witty statements.
And this is something which hard to fake. A girl who is doesn’t like you or who has lost interest in you will rarely laugh at your mildly witty statements.
Girls can fake some signs of interest like smiling at you, touching you, complimenting you or even giving you her number.
Test #2. Touch her.
You can test to know if a girl likes you by making light romantic touches.
Girls are super conscious of their bodies. If she reacts positively to your touch, it means she genuinely likes you.
If she reacts negatively by immediately pulling away, for example, it could be a sign that she isn’t worth pursuing.
How do you expect her to take you to pound town if she won’t let you hold her hand?
You’ll expect that only if you’re naive.
Test #3. Ask the girl for help.
Girls will only invest in you only if they are really into you.
If you ask a girl for help and she is willing to help you without any hesitation, it is a good signal that she likes you.
However, when using this test, do not try to convince the girl to help you. You want her to do you a favour without any hesitation.
If she always gives a vague excuse, it could be the right time for you to move on.
Why should you move on?
Just imagine if an attractive girl that you liked asked you for a favour?
Would you come up with a vague excuse?
Of course not.
Test #4. Give her a positive body language.
When you turn your body towards a girl who likes you, she will keep facing you with an open body.
But if you point your whole body towards a girl who isn’t interested in you, she will try to pull back away from you.
Or she may try to close her body off by, for example, crossing her legs, folding her arms across her chest. She will start making little effort to talk to you.
Read on confident body language
Test #5. Make and maintain eye contact.
Assuming you see an attractive girl that you like, for example, across the room or walking towards your direction on the street or in your social circle.
If you want to test and know if a girl likes you, just try to make eye contact with her without saying anything.
If she holds eye contact for more than 3 seconds, chances are very high that she likes you.
She will even break eye contact submissively: by averting her gaze downwards.
Women are often submissive to men they like or find attractive.
If she quickly avoids your gaze by immediately looking away, then she has no interest in you.
#6. Ask her to hang out.
Asking a girl to hang out with you is one of the best ways to test and know if a girl likes you and wants to be more than friends.
What you need to do is to ask a girl to join you for a specific activity, at a specific time, date and place.
You can say something like “I always grab ice cream every Tuesday evening at place X. I would love it if join me”.
If she says yes says and shows up for a date, then she will be interested in you.
If she says no or gives a lame excuse like being busy (without giving an alternative), it means she isn’t interested in you.
It means she was just a flirt and just wanted your attention.
The reason as to why you give a detailed request for a date is because you want to give the girl options.
For example, if she doesn’t like the place for the date, she can give an alternative. If she is busy on that day, she can suggest for some other day.
If she gives an excuse without providing you with an alternative, it means she isn’t interested in you.
You also don’t want to take her to an expensiveve date. Don’t throw a lot of cash on your dates.
Why? Because you don’t want get excited yet, she went on the date for the free drinks and eats. A.k.a, you don’t want to attract gold diggers.
But if you have no problem with gold diggers and throwing a ton of paper, I have no have hate for you.
Read more on first date mistakes you must avoid.
Test #7. Pause the conversation on her end.
During a conversation, for example, on phone or text message, you may need to intentionally let the conversation to lull on the girl’s end.
Then wait to see if she restarts the conversation.
If she makes effort to restart the conversation, it is a good sign that the girl likes you.
Why? Because she’s taken effort to invest in the interaction.
If the girl makes an excuse to exit the conversation during that moment of silence, then it means that she isn’t interested.
Test #8. Do not reach out to her first.
Sometimes you need to take a step back and wait for her to re-engage you.
Do not always be the one to reach out to her first.
Do not always be the one to text first. Let her be the one to call you first.
A girl who likes you will take time to reach out to you first.
Sometimes you need to be active and test a girl’s level of interest.
Getting to know a girl’s interest levels helped me a lot to know which girls I had to spend my time on and those that just needed my attention.
If she doesn’t like you, move on. Meet and date other girls who are going to like you.
However, you may have to consider several tests before you come up with a conclusion if she likes you or not.
In summary, how do you test to know if a girl likes you?
• Make mildly witty statements when she is around
• Touch her.
• Ask the girl for help.
• Give her a positive body language.
• Make and maintain eye contact.
• Ask her to hangout.
• Pause the conversation on her end.
I hope this article has helped you (and hey, if you think it’s cool, I’d appreciate it if you’d share on social media.)